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Tuesday, 10 December 2013 12:20

Stress Relief

We all know that life is full of stressful situations. From work, to finances, to family issues, everybody has their own problems to sort through. Although these issues seem to be so big that you will never get passed them, the fact is that life is ever changing and problems do come to an end. Stress leads to physical and mental problems such as obesity, depression, heart disease, diabetes and many more illnesses. Thus, stress relief is extremely important. It is true that there are many ways to relieve stress but some are much more beneficial than others.

 

Here are some methods of stress relief that are most beneficial:

ü  Working out at the gym: Studies show that both men and woman work out at gym not only to get fit and build muscle, but to take out their frustrations. Exercise causes a release of endorphins in your brain. Endorphins are neurotransmitters that elevate your mood.

ü  Masturbation: It is an absolute fact that masturbation helps you relax. It helps boost your immune system and helps regulate your cholesterol. Most woman have vibrators and other sex toys that they use regularly. It is fast becoming popular for men too. Sex Toys are a great way to get to know your body and relieve yourself of the stress in your day to day life.

ü  Sex: Although masturbation is healthy and helps relieve stress, sex always does it best! But why not accompany the two together? People who have sex regularly and use sex toys during sex with their partner not only makes things different but also exciting and is a great way to forget about everything else going on in life and do a bit of role play. People find this extremely beneficial s they can escape reality to a sexual and sensual fantasy of their choice.

Stress is a part of life, but it is important to know how to deal with these everyday issues. Stress is extremely bad for health and something that people should take seriously. Healthy mind, healthy life!

 

Thursday, 28 November 2013 14:09

Bondage & Fetish

Having a bondage fetish is common. People often have the desire to have full power and control over someone else, and sometimes be the one who is being controlled. This is normal and natural. Both females and males like to be in control and the ones being controlled. It has been proven by science experts that people who are under tremendous stress mainly like to take control during intercourse. Bondage helps this process. Using wrist and ankle ties, wips, blindfolds and other BDSM Gear will not only help with relieving this stress but is a very exciting form of role play for you and your partner.

The submissive role is often played by the person who often makes orders and has to be in control in other situations in life. It could be family or work related. Basically roles are swapped majority of the time. This is not the only reason people have a bondage fetish. Let’s face it ladies – we love seeing our men naked and bound on the odd occasion, because it is just so darn sexy! BDSM Gear is great for any couple looking for a bit of excitement, and want to try something daring and new. Adult sex shops stock all kinds of great bondage and fetish gear. 50 Shades of Grey products also have a large range of bondage equipment to buy if you are a fan!If you are into light bondage or new to bondage try something simply like handcuffsor a blindfold to start. Surprise your man and be all tied up when you get home! Every couple should try everything at least once, so get your hands tied up and get the fun begin!

 

Tuesday, 26 November 2013 12:39

50 Shades Sex Toys

The Fifty Shades of Grey book is fast becoming one of the most well known in the world at the current time. The Erotic book has been sold to millions of men and women who have now become great fans of the entire Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy. The first book was published in June 2011 and although the content is extremely explicate, people are greatly intrigued by the characters Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele and just how kinky they were with props!
 
What people are slowly noticing is that “Fifty Shades” has now gone far beyond just a book. 50 Shades sex toys are now an extremely popular trend and the toys are all inspired by the items used in the book. 50 Shades Sex Toys range from blind folds, to vibrators, to handcuffs and restraints.
 
Popular items that were in the book and mentioned often are the Kegel Balls also known as Ben Wa Balls, Smart Balls, or Luna Beads. These beads which Christian Grey makes Anna use are great for women who want to tighten their vaginal muscles. They are used for both exercise and pleasure. They are easily inserted and easy to remove. Another popular item used in the 50 Shades book was the Blind folds and the Hand cuffs, but aren't they for everybody? Couples who are into Bondage should most definitely try the 50 Shades bondage goodies!
 
50 Shades sex toyscome in a large range and these toys are not to be missed. If you are a fan and you have been inspired by E. L James and her fantastic book, be sure to buy online today and live your own 50 Shades fantasy!

Top 5 Sexiest Positions To Try Out With Your Lover

  1.   Good old Doggy Style

Women and men alike absolutely cannot resist this breath taking position, for centuries our inner animals have been practicing this position and still to this day we are enjoying it! It allows the masculine in the relationship take over and control the amount of thrust, while the feminist bends over allowing for super deep penetration!

2.     The Wheel Barrow

This is a relatively newer position, and we can see why! It is quite a difficult position to master but with a little strength you are good to go for the ride of your life. The receiver faces downwards allowing the givers penis to move into areas you never knew you had! Kinky!

3.     The Face Off

This is one of the most intimate positions, wrapping your legs around each other straddling face to face, there’s no way you’re getting out of a few whispers of sweet nothings into each other’s ears. If you’re looking at getting your relationship back on track then this position is definitely for you! Spark up some romance.

4.     Sideways show down

This is a great position if your partner is a bit on the slimmer side, from this angle the penis is allowed to thrust deeper as well as the rest of his body grinding up all areas of your vagina so stimulation is created not just by penetration!

5.     The Seated Mount-him

This position is one of the best g-spot stimulators so get ready to be blown away! He sits down on a chair while she backs it up mounting him steadily, the chair is both there for support and to give yourself some leverage, and his hands are free to roam about your perky body. Enjoy!

Wednesday, 02 October 2013 06:28

Sexy Lingerie

Sexy Lingerie

Women wear lingerie for reasons as varied as there are styles of lingerie. There’s something great about knowing that beneath ordinary clothing, you’re wearing something outrageously sexy. It changes your posture and the way you feel.

Beautiful lingerie will make youappreciate yourself more. When you invest the time and effort to get and wear lovely lingerie, it is your vote that you are worth it! If you own lingerie that really fits you properly and compliments your body, you'll instantly boost your confidence. You'll feel happier, sexier, and more at peace with your body than you would if you just stuck to practical things.

That doesn't mean that lingerie is the only path to good confidence, but it can help you on your journey. You'll be surprised at the difference in your self-image when you wear beautiful undergarments!

 Lingerie is also extremely romantic. It's the small touches that really matter in a relationship; when you stick to the norm, you lose the spice in our love life!

The same way that going through your day without a word of affection from your partner can suck the passion out of it, not making an effort to look and feel attractive can slowly diminish the romance. The good news is that there are lots of ways to put it back, and lingerie is a great start!

 

Sex Toys – The Evolution…

I’m sure we all take for granted our very special “under the bed” friends but I’m sure if we knew the struggle our ancestors went through to create the perfect toy maybe we’d all appreciate them a little more! They weren’t always perfect, they weren’t always pretty and they weren’t always for pleasure. Let’s take a look at the long and strange journey that sex toys have been on through the centuries…

 

The Beginning:

First God created man, then God created women, then women invented Dildo's and they’ve done nothing but ‘moan’ ever since…

Archaeologists have found sex toys and pornography dating back as far as 35 000 BC. Obviosly they dont look very comfortable or pleasureable and back before the luxury of silicone & plastic, people were using wood and stone! 

- A 13 000 year old stone dildo found in German

Not only sex toys but sex enhancers and contraceptives as well. At least we know even our ancestors were keeping it safe! Condoms were invented after the Black death plagued Europe. People were walloped with an epidemic of syphilis. A man named Gabriele Falloppio soaked linen sheaths in chemicals and left them to dry and although it doesnt sound like much it worked really well. No one that used these "condoms" contractd the disease.  

 

- An early age condom invented by Gabriele Falloppio in 1564

In 1200 AD Chineese nobility were under so much pressure to produce a heir to the throne that they would sleep with a number of woman to make sure the job was done. This became stressfull and under the pressure they felt to perform they coudn't always "rise to the occasion" and stay there. Thus the Penis Ring was invented using the eyelids of a goat, yuck! 

The vibrator was used medicinally to cure an illness called "female hysteria". Doctors believed that women needed to reach orgasm to cure their hysteria and after sitting for hours trying to acheive that doctors (obviously male) complained that they had sore wrists or were bored (typical). Then a man named George Taylor invented the first steam-powered vibrator. As you can probably imagine these weren't so popular as woman wouldn't want steam near their hoohaas. J. Granville came to the rescue with his "electrochemical" design and women went crazy for them. Let us all take a moment to thank this man for possibly the best orgasms life has to offer...

So there you have it folks.. Ancient sex toys, makes you really wanna just whisper sweet thank you's in your partners ears when you put them on charge tonight... We're happy to announce that this story has a very happy ending!

 

Bondage & Fetish/ BDSM

Bondage and BDSM Explained:

We’ve all heard the term BDSM before and we all have our own ideas about what that means. The truth is that most people practice forms of bondage without even knowing it. You know when she digs her nails into your back as you orgasm? Or that hard spank on the butt he gives you suddenly that drives you crazy? Although subtle and innocent, these are all forms of BDSM.

Let’s look at the term BDSM; it can be broken down like this:

The term bondage describes the act of physical restraining by use of gags, ropes, restraints and whips. The term discipline describes psychological restraining, with the use of rules and punishment to control your partner in bed.

Dominance and submission is the act of giving your partner control over you in an erotic episode or lifestyle. The most common form of dominance and submission is dominance and slavery.

Sadomasochism refers to the act of exchanging physical or emotional pain.

Sadism describes the sexual pleasure you receive from inflicting pain, degradation or humiliation on another person.

The masochist on the other hand enjoys being hurt, humiliated or suffering under the consensual scenario.

In some BDSM the dominator exposes the submitter to a wide range of kinky acts such as: pinching, biting, scratching (with fingernails), spanking or burning (with candle wax). They use objects such as whips, crops, ice cubes, small shocking devices, gags, chains and gags.

People who practice BDSM love using sex toys to fulfill sexual fantasies and desires. Anyone who has read 50 Shades of Grey by EL James knows what we’re talking about. The book has erotic scenes where sex toys and restraints are used to bring the characters to knee trembling orgasms. We have a range of the toys and restraints mentioned in the book in our 50 Shades of Grey Collection.

Why BDSM? Couples who have tried and who practice BDSM find that it brings you two closer together as it takes you to extreme levels of orgasm. Bondage sex yields previously unimagined levels of pleasure, trust, intensity and excitement.

So, if you’re ready to get started, I recommend that you check out our bondage and fetish collection of toys and restraints. You’ll need something sexy and sturdy to tie your partner up with. Maybe you want to surprise your partner, why not blindfold them and use a teaser or a whip?

The possibilities are endless and we have no shortage of bondage and fetish toys and gear for your every need. As long as you keep your mind open and everything is done with consent from your partner we guarantee a good time. Maybe try using a ‘safe word’ so you know the difference between “oh, stop, it’s too good” and “ouch, stop, I don’t like that”.

Don’t forget that our Sex Toy Shop team is always here to answer any of your questions and to help wherever we can click on the Contact Us icon at the top and send us a message and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can. Be naughty, be safe, BDSM…

Adult Sex Shops

Adult Sex Shops sells all naughty and nice products related to adult sexual and erotic entertainment.  Sex Shops sell a range of Sex Toys from dildos and vibrators to masturbators, penis pumps, condoms and lubes.

The world's first sex shop was opened in 1962 in Germany and has since become increasingly popular in many countries. Nowadays online Sex Shops are rapidly becoming the chosen way to shop! You can shop from the comfort of your own home and have your sex toys delivered quickly and discreetly.

Here at Sex Toy Shop SA we strive to satisfy all our customers need whenever and wherever you are! Our Sex Shop delivers to all 9 South African Provinces and all the surrounding areas.

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So no matter what’s your fetish or how adventurous you are, we have something for everyone! Visit our Toy Shop and browse through our tantalising products. If you need help with anything, one of our eager s-experts are waiting a click away on our online chat feature. Friendly and quick service is what we aim for here at Sex Toy Shop SA. So let your hair down, exercise your nimble fingers and shop with us Today!

 

Monday, 02 September 2013 13:31

Discreet Packaging

Owning a Sex Toy, is not something to be ashamed about, but we do understand that people often prefer to keep their kinky shopping, to themselves. We understand that not everyone would walk into an Adult Store and by a sex toy, which is why we are an online store, for your convenience! We also know that with an online store comes other worries, regarding packaging, labels, as well as our name appearing on bank statements etc. Well, your worries end here. 

Our packages are all wrapped up in completely blank wrapping paper that is not see through at all. Our packages also have got no labels on them stating that the package has come from a Sex Toy store. So you can be comforted knowing that anyone handling or seeing this package will not know what is in it, unless they physically open it themselves. As far as your EFT payments, or Credit card payments showing up as "Sex Toy Shop SA" on bank statements go, you do not need to worry. When making the payment you will see that we do not use the name of our online store.

Our team is dedicated to meeting all your needs. With free and fast delivery, discreet packaging, and safe online shopping, we guarantee that you will receive the best service! Contact us with any queries you may have today.

Here at Sex Toy Shop SA we promise you safe shopping, and fast delivery!
And you can be sure that your packages are discreetly packaged!
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